Online dating safety

Meet your match. Someone always knows where you are.

Swiping right shouldn't mean rolling the dice. Before you meet a stranger from a dating app, SafeMeet quietly shares your live location with a person you trust and watches for a missed check-in — so help knows where to go before you ever have to ask.

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57%of women on dating apps received unwanted sexual messagesPew Research Center
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0on-screen indicators — your date can't tell it's running

A first-date session, start to finish

You set it up in under a minute before you leave. From there it's silent until something's wrong.

STEP 01

Pick your person

Choose a trusted contact and the meeting spot. They don't need the app to receive your alert.

STEP 02

Set the interval

Tell SafeMeet to check on you every 30, 60, or 90 minutes — whatever fits the date.

STEP 03

Silent check-ins

A quiet prompt asks "still good?" One tap and the timer resets. No buzzing, no scene.

STEP 04

Missed window

Miss a check-in and a 60-second grace timer starts. Don't respond and escalation begins.

STEP 05

Distress alert

Your contact gets your live GPS, battery level, and a short ambient audio clip — by push and SMS fallback.

Built for the awkward-free version of safe

First-date safety questions

How do I stay safe meeting someone from a dating app?

Tell a trusted contact where and when you're meeting, share your live location, and set a check-in. SafeMeet automates all three: pick a friend, set an interval, and if you miss a check-in it sends your live GPS, battery, and a short audio clip to your contact — by push and SMS.

Can my date tell I'm using a safety app?

No. SafeMeet runs in the background with no on-screen indicator. Check-ins and location sharing stay private between you and the contacts you pick.

Is it free?

Yes — live GPS sharing, scheduled check-ins, and silent distress alerts are free on iPhone. Premium adds the PIN-protected web link for contacts who don't have the app.

Before your next first date, set it and forget it.

Free on iPhone. Silent in your pocket, loud the moment you need it.

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